feat: enabled monitors everywhere and standardize resources a bit (#1281)

* feat: enabled monitors everywhere and standardize resources a bit

Signed-off-by: Devin Buhl <devin@buhl.casa>

* add raw tags

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Signed-off-by: Devin Buhl <devin@buhl.casa>

bootstrap/templates/kubernetes/apps/network/ingress-nginx/external/helmrelease.yaml.j2

@@ -63,6 +63,12 @@ spec:
         proxy-body-size: 0
         proxy-buffer-size: 16k
         ssl-protocols: TLSv1.3 TLSv1.2
+      metrics:
+        enabled: true
+        serviceMonitor:
+          enabled: true
+          namespaceSelector:
+            any: true
       extraArgs:
         {% if cloudflare.acme.production %}
         default-ssl-certificate: "network/${SECRET_DOMAIN/./-}-production-tls"
@@ -80,8 +86,7 @@ spec:
               app.kubernetes.io/component: controller
       resources:
         requests:
-          cpu: 10m
-          memory: 250Mi
+          cpu: 100m
         limits:
           memory: 500Mi
     defaultBackend: